Are you really "ugly", or simply average? In today's media culture we are bombarded with images of models and not real normal people. Even then, already naturally beautiful models are often subject to hours of make-up, strict diet and exercise regimens, tailored clothing, surgical alteration, and digital enhancement. In the end, we end up comparing looks with an image that is entirely out of reach of all but a select few, and even then--is manipulated. Very often people have very skewed ideas of what is normal and average!
Average is normal. Most people are not endowed with fabulous looks. Many people struggle with cosmetic issues, such as acne, obesity, chronic dandruff, and some with very serious issues like severe burns or scarring. Media culture puts a high emphasis on physical looks. However, most people make a life not based on looks, but on attributes such as intelligence, hard work, a keen eye for detail, creativity, or the like.